
Elly Van Laar
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About me
Student Wellbeing Officer | Leadership Coach and Mediator for nonprofit leaders and students | Specialized in Mindfulness and Self-Compassion
Education

Center for Nonviolent Communication
2008 - 2016Needs-based communication, mediationActivities and Societies: 2011-current: I teach weekly classes Nonviolent Communication and offer monthly workshops Trained with Marshall Rosenberg, John Kinyon, Ike Lasater, Robert Gonzales, Jeff Brown, Kit Miller, Francois Beausoleil, Roxy Manning, Jan van Koert, Gregory Rouillard, Jared Finkelstein

Educational Group The Hague
1997 - 1999Vocational Recreational CoachClient-centered methodologies

Het Nieuwe Lyceum Bilthoven
1977 - 1983Gymnasium Humanities/Humanistic StudiesActivities and Societies: Student Representative Dutch, English,Greek, Math, Biology, History, Geography

Leiden University
1985 - 1991Master's degree Political SciencesActivities and Societies: Actress and secretary theatre group "01751"; Volunteer for Refugee Projects Pax Christi Specialty: Decision Sciences/African Power Structures, State and Economic Development

Leiden University
1984 - 1991Master's degree Political Science and Government MasterActivities and Societies: Board Student Association, Actress Amateur Group

Leiden University
1984 - 1985Bachelor's degree Political SciencesActivities and Societies: Board Member of the Association for Students Political Sciences; Student representative at the Department of Political Sciences Masters Political Science

Leiden University
1984 - 1991Master's degree Political Science and Government Masters
Haagse Hogeschool/TH Rijswijk
2002 - 2002Bachelor EducationSpecialization: developing courses for different learning styles
Experience

SPILplaats Studievereniging (Association Students Political Science)
Sept 1984 - Sept 1985Board Member*Invited key speakers for lectures*Organized scientific activities for fellow students*Coordinated with Department for Political Sciences*Facilitated dialog and resolved conflicts between members*Written and received funds for various student activities

Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam
Jun 1991 - May 1992PhD student*Formulated research hypothesis*Collected and analyzed data for research project in Political Sciences*Initiated and facilitated peer group review meetings*Wrote and presented papers

REAKT Groep
Sept 1997 - May 2007*Coached more than 500 clients in individual and group settings*Coordinated case management with job consultants*Taught a variety of content areas, including: job readiness, social studies, English, Dutch as a second language*Developed and offered curriculum, life skills, communication and career counseling materials*Colleague at 100+ person non-profit supporting clients of all ages with a range of challenges, including a history of incarceration, substance abuse, homelessness, mental illness, and social difficulties Show less
Trainer/Coach
Sept 2002 - May 2007Life Coach
Sept 1997 - Sept 2002

Dynamisch Bureau B.V.
Jun 2007 - Jun 2008Coach*Interviewed clients, developed career strategies, supported job placement*Developed and provided training*Negotiated contracts and supported business development*Increased client satisfaction

REAKT Groep
Jun 2008 - Dec 2008Management Consultant*Supported regional VP and key personnel in better understanding of and responding to clients' needs*Reevaluated fit between organization and environment, reorganized services provided*Mediated between clients and staff, and among clients*Increased revenue, client attendance and client satisfaction as a result*One of chain of psychiatric facilities throughout the Netherlands

Saffier De Residentiegroep
Jan 2009 - Mar 2009Management Consultant*Advised president to enhance team building for efficient implementation of guidelines*Recommended actions to improve effective team communication and cooperation*Key department of 100 person company

Elly van Laar Coaching
Mar 2012 - nowLeadership CoachI support nonprofit leaders and others to transform conflict into collaboration by sharing empathy and conflict resolution skills.Some conflicts are in your face, others are less visible. These conflicts persist until they are resolved. When ignored, a pattern of hurt feelings turns into enemy images that undermine trust and collaboration and create discord. As a leader, you can untangle the conflict culture.You don’t need someone to criticize your leadership style. You need an objective person to talk through your challenges and ask the right questions. Hit the pause button and reflect on your own priorities, boundaries, and leadership style, so you can decide how to move ahead. Show less

Apex Collaboration LLC
Feb 2019 - nowCoachHelping leaders find Clarity, Integrity, and Contribution. The rarer the talent the more common the challenge to find meaning, understanding, and fruitful collaborating partners. The consequence can be diminished creativity, ineffective teaming, and the disappointment of unrealized impact. Apex offers human capital development for leaders, inventors, scientists, and creatives.

Leiden University
Aug 2023 - nowStudent Wellbeing Officer
Licenses & Certifications

TMCA Certified Mediator
Texas Mediators Credentialing AssociationJan 2021- View certificate

ACC
International Coach FederationJan 2019 
Basic Mediation Training
Dispute Resolution Center of Austin TexasMar 2015
Volunteer Experience
Mediator
Issued by Dispute Resolution Center of Austin Texas on Nov 2015
Associated with Elly Van LaarMembership Chair
Issued by Austin Mediators Association on Dec 2016
Associated with Elly Van LaarFundraiser Assistant
Issued by American YouthWorks on May 2010
Associated with Elly Van LaarBig sister
Issued by Jeugdformaat on Mar 2006
Associated with Elly Van LaarFacilitator Meditation Group
Issued by Austin Zen Ctr on Jun 2010
Associated with Elly Van LaarMembership Chair
Issued by Austin Mediators Association on Dec 2016
Associated with Elly Van Laar
Languages
- enEnglish
- duDutch
- boBokmål, norwegian
- geGerman
- frFrench
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